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How To Conquer Public Speaking Fear

By Morton C. Orman, M.D.

© 1996-2002, M. C. Orman, MD, FLP. All rights reserved

Review Of 11 Hidden Causes Of Public Speaking Stress

1. Thinking that public speaking is inherently stressful (it's not).

2. Thinking you need to be brilliant or perfect to succeed (you don't).

3. Trying to impart too much information or cover too many points in a short presentation.

4. Having the wrong purpose in mind (to get rather than to give/contribute).

5. Trying to please everyone (this is unrealistic).

6. Trying to emulate other speakers (very difficult) rather than simply being yourself (very easy).

7. Failing to be personally revealing and humble.

8. Being fearful of potential negative outcomes (they almost never occur and even when they do, you can use them to your advantage).

9. Trying to control the wrong things (e.g., the behavior of your audience).

10. Spending too much time overpreparing (instead of developing confidence and trust in your natural ability to succeed).

11. Thinking your audience will be as critical of your performance as you might be.

Review of 10 Key Principles To Always Keep In Mind

#1---Speaking in Public is NOT Inherently Stressful

#2---You Don't Have to be Brilliant or Perfect to Succeed

#3---All You Need is Two or Three Main Points

#4---You also Need a Purpose That is Right for the Task

#5---The Best Way to Succeed is NOT to Consider Yourself a Public Speaker!

#6---Humility and Humor Can Go a Long Way

#7---When You Speak in Public, Nothing "Bad" Can Ever Happen!

#8---You Don't Have to Control the Behavior of Your Audience

#9---In General, the More You Prepare, the Worse You Will Do

#10--Your Audience Truly Wants You to Succeed